Devs have responded to this particular bosses issues - hint for future bug posts : Forum search is your friend.
The short of it is that they are aware of everything you mentioned and have already made some fixes internally (i.e. not released as patches yet) that relate to everything from the pushing and subsequent client server desync that causes everything (?) you mention.
They tried to release some fixes in the very latest small patch, but found a problem and rolled it back so the bugs still exist for us.