By saying things like “I don’t care so you shouldn’t, too” you always hit a nerve.
Turning complaints into a problem that’s upon the author of the complaint to solve by just not using the feature, won’t work the long term.
LE is sold as an ARPG with MP feature. So people expect it to work for both player bases, the single player and the MP dudes.
If you follow this games social media you will recognize that there’s a huge demand for MP. Even if there’s no special features, just plain coop with friends or strangers. There are a lot of people that like coop gaming.
With Necro, especially the massive Wraith builds, there was always the fear, that this might kill performance for MP, since the builds already were performance killers in SP.
I like playing a Necro with a large number of minions. And I want to play with buddies, too.
Making or leaving a class in a spot where having this class in a MP party impacts the gameplay of everybody in the group negatively will certainly result in discriminatory behaviour. We saw this with Outriders, recently, where people got kicked out of the group because they played Devastator what was a underperforming class in terms of clearspeed. And when people complained about it they got told “go play solo or just make some friends that don’t kick you” - also turning the problem around.
For Wraiths I’m very certain that it was never intended to have more than 100. Back in the days there were builds that were advertised like “50+ Wraiths”. Then we got 100+, 200+, no idea where the end was before patch. This all came with implementing more and more stuff that increased player power, like new items/bases, blessings, exalted rarity and so on.
It would have been better to have addressed the Wraith problem some time earlier, before it got out of hand and the current nerf was that drastic. People called for a Wraith cap months or even years ago. I remember a topic where we talked about hard capping all kinds of stuff (minions, damage, everything…) to not get broken builds that trigger a shitstorm when they finally (and certainly legitimately) get nerfed.