So Jerle just criticized your behavior and then you’re trying to tell him to always criticize the behavior? Which. Is. What. He. Did. To. You.
Between that ‘small minded comment’
and this:
I decided we were all in a troll-raid or the OP came in thinking their poop smelled better than everyone else’s and when everyone else points out “no it still smells like poop” the OP just continues to scream it doesn’t.
Either way, I’m not seeing, or buying at the market, any constructive idea in the original statement.