i can justify why people should use guides. some people are busy working people. some people dont want to waste their time and resources “trying” to make something work and realizing that it sucked so bad that they might as well reroll a new character.
i get that.
but, when following guides is the optimal way to play, it directly punishes players who actually want to learn and explore the game.
take poe for an example. i can never recommend poe to anyone without recommending them to follow a build guide. there are way too many pitfalls and wrong choices that would make your character so weak that even if by some miracle they get to level 100 their dps could be 100k. starter builds are a thing in such games.
then we have games like GD. in the subreddit, we have a lot of newer players asking for build guides/suggestions. a huge lot of the community would tell them. JUST TRY GOING IN BLIND. and when they do, many enjoy the aspect of making their own build and making it work. this can only happen in games where the gaps are not too huge. for sure you could follow an OP build and do significantly more than most players, but it never feels like a requirement.
LE actually got to a nice spot where players were encouraged to do their own thing. to be honest the infinite scaling in LE was fine as it felt optional. you didnt NEED to get to C300. you didnt NEED to get to C100 even. and there was a time players were encouraged to just try their own thing as there was no need for doing so.
after abby/uber abby was introduced things were changed as players felt they NEEDED to kill him. after all the BIS relic is gated behind him. if you’re playing SSF. you might as well give up trying to make your own build if you want the relic.
making a game where using a build being the “best way to play” or the “minimum requirement” to play actively punishes the playerbase that wants to “do their own thing”.
if doing my own thing gives me 100 dps while following a build guide gives me 10K dps. i would heavily be discouraged from doing my own thing and i would in fact discourage people from doing their own thing.
this is what exactly is happening with poe. “tru melee” strike skills in poe can be very strong but players have to fix it by adding huge amount of range and require players to have mitigation or speed to make it work. why go thru all that hassle and just use any other skill that has built in aoe? but newer players would not know.
following a build guide is not inherently bad. but if following a build guide is significantly better than doing your own thing, then i would say the game is simply unbalanced.
on a side note, i personally feel that if you do follow a build guide, the game is playing you, instead of you playing the game. its like playing a puzzle game but with a walkthru/guide on how to exactly solve each and every puzzle. i do not find any enjoyment “playing someone elses build”.
i dont mind if i made a build and it turned out to be meta. thats me organically discovering a meta or a different way of putting it is different people coming to the same conclusion from their own effort and research.
to me i rather play survivorlikes rather than follow a build guide.
all that said, i personally detest following build guides BUT i dont look down on people who do.